Topics Started by BIG D
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un and the society
by BIG D inwhere is the info,on the card they had, or official reply of the society?.
big d.
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listening to an oldie right nowhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0R-ZE-gFcBA
by BIG D ini love old dione warwick music.
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any thoughts?
by BIG D infor those of you that dont know me, i am a single dad with 3 boys for 5 years now, my x signed her rights away long ago.. .
no support ever, no insurance, even before she signed her rights away, many long stories of her abuse that caused her to lose custody to me years ago, she has never dealt with her abuse over even acknowledged it, i put my kids thru years of counseling, and they do not wish to see her, she has been calling alot lately, i dont hear from her for maybe 4 months at a time, she is crying , wanting to try to see them.. i must tell you she has , mentally , physically, and mentally sexually abused them, and then charged me with sexual abuse, with which it took me a year in evaluations, and family studies , and 35,000 in lawyer fees to disprove, and the judge saw her lies and removed them from her for abuse.
i also believe she has many emotional problems , both real and imagined.
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old friends
by BIG D ini just spoke to an old jw friend i grew up with in the truth, he went to bethel, and now dfd and i havent spoke to him in 28 years, hes doin fine and like us, saw the bullssssst first hand, we were ms together.. big d.
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my first christmas tree, real or fake?
by BIG D inthis will be my first real christmas, fake or real tree?
any comments?.
big d.
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growing up native american
by BIG D infor those of you that dont know, iam half choctaw indian, my mom told me an sad, but interesting story the other day, she is jw, and my dad elder, she had her indian boarding school reunion, in oklahoma, and did not want to go, the first i have ever heard of her reunion, in all my life,.
she told me this story, similar stories i have heard from indian relatives, when she was a little girl, about 7 , she had 11 brothers and sisters, she lived on tribal lands in oklahoma, her great grandmother signed the 5 civilized scrolls act in 1907 that said indians would give up there ansterial lands and be relocated to indian territory, oklahoma.our tribe was from louisana.. her older family traveled from louisana, to oklahoma, in the dead of winter, on foot and hungry the whole way, over half the tribe died, sickness and malnourishment set in on the journey, and the military escort was berating them the whole way, the exodus, known to history books tday as the trail of tears.
the soldiers learned the words tish-pa, which means hurry up.. for some time after they made it to indian territory, they were given dispersments of money, they did not use money, and had no real use for it, it stopped shortly thereafter, the site named skully, to this day, which means money, a new word made up for it.. .
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virgins, better off or not?
by BIG D insome here have said that as a matter of course, they choose to remain celibate, singleness the better course and all that.. now that some of these have left the troff, they have still remained so, and now many of those are in their 30s, please i am not dissing you , so dont pm me, ok?.
i wonder as i am a guy, how much different my life would be, if i was still a virgin, wouldnt it create a huge sexual hangup problem for those ones.. that are ....i mean expectations not met for example , when it finally did happen, the worries that, as if being a dub and those problems werent enough, well, some have said, they put it off out of instilled fear of it now.
maybe it creates a issue about sex so big that , they stay celibate even now.. relationship problems of intimacy, or maybe latching on to the first sexual partner, like we all did in the 9 th grade?.
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